Marlar Cemetery, Sawyer, Kentucky

Recently I received a friend request on Facebook from a Marlar who lives in Kentucky just across the river from Cincinnati, Ohio. He had decided that he wanted to befriend as many Marlars on facebook as he could, and I am so glad that he did. He is my husband's fourth cousin and is descended from the one brother who stayed in Kentucky while the mother and other children moved to Mississippi in the middle 1800's. I had not been able to prove who the other was but he gave me access to his website which gave me lots of information and I am now in the process of adding it to my website on tribal pages. This was very exciting information but the strange part was that most of the deceased members of the family are buried at Marlar Cemetery near Sawyer, Ky, in the southern most part just north of Knoxville, Tennessee. This cemetery is located in the Cumberland Falls State Park and my husband has vacationed near there twice and did not know it was there. Several years ago we made a trip to Sterns with our friends, Bobby and Judy and last year we spent one night in Somerset, Ky, which is about ten miles from the cemetery!
When I found this out I immediately started planning a trip to go to this cemetery and another one near by. Two weeks ago Jim and I along with our daughter Michelle and her husband James made the trip, combining it with a trip to Gatlinburg.
While there we were able to make pictures at both cemeteries. I am sure we did not get pictures of all the Marlar graves as there were many unmarked graves. Some of the tombstones had deteriorated and some had been replaced with newer ones, leaving the old ones there also.
While we were there we also visited Cumberland Falls. This was the first trip there for Michelle and James. We had such a wonderful time. The leaves were beginning to turn, the weather was beautiful and we enjoyed being with family talking about older family members.
I make a lot of pictures for findagrave.com and I had noticed that there was a request for a picture of a grave that was not one of my husband's relatives. I made sure that I made a picture to post. I received the sweetest thank you. It was from a young man in the service and the grave was his father's. He was so happy to receive the picture and I was happy I could make it for him as he was protecting our freedom!
Hope you enjoy some of the pictures we made!!!

Whatever Happened to Randolph Scott

Memories of growing up in a small town during the 1950"s!

Life was much simpler in a small town during the 1950's. Money was tight but life was uncomplicated without all the trappings of the modern day. Iuka had appoximately 2500 living in the city limits. We had no red lights and the major highway from Memphis to Chattanooga, Tennessee ran right through the middle of town along side the railroad track that ran from Memphis to Washington, DC. There were several freight trains and two passenger trains that came though each day and that was how we received our mail. My sister lived in Memphis and I would get on the train and ride to visit her and her family. My husband or kids have never had the pleasure of enjoying riding through the countryside and seeing the country like you did from a train.
We had two drug stores in town and both had soda fountains with soda jerks (mostly boys) just like the shows on TV. Going to Baskin-Robbins will never compare to going to the soda fountain and having a milk shake, malt, or sundae in a real glass. They were the meeting places after school when all the teens would meet to flirt and gossip. Awww, those were the "Happy Days" with a jukebox but without the Fonz!
Our town had a cafe called "Claude Curtis Hamburgers". We called the burgers "slug burgers" and all kind of rumors were told about them. They were greasy and you got them with mustard, pickle, and onion only. I don't think anyone knew exactly what he put in them but today's version uses soy in the beef. He also made hotdogs with kraut and a watered down homemade chili. Most times you could not find a table or stool to sit at. They sold for five cents!
We had a movie theater named the Majestic. On the week end it was the place to be. They would show westerns (Roy Rogers, Gene Autry, Randolph Scott, Lash LaRue) along with news and all the latest movies. When they showed "Love me Tender" with Elvis I think I saw it at least ten times, and cried each time!! The first run movies were at night and the westerns were mostly matinees on Saturday afternoon. You could go to town get a hamburger and coke at Claude's, go to the movie and get popcorn for a quarter! Try doing that today!!!! Later we got a Drive In movie which is still in operation today, one of only three left in the State of Mississippi. I actually met Lash LaRue at the Memphis Fair when I was about thirteen and he kissed me on my cheek. To me this was the almost as good as meeting Elvis!
All the stores were in the "downtown" area. On Saturdays it was hard to find a parking space. That was when everyone did their shopping at small family owned grocery stores, clothing stores, barber and beauty shops and the 5 and 10 cent store. We had two, one was named Elmore's and was actually a chain store out of Alabama. When I graduated from high school in May of 1959 I worked for them that summer until I could decide what I wanted to do with my life. I worked six days a week and I don't remember how much I made an hour but we were paid in cash on Saturday and my pay was eighteen dollars and a few cents after they took out taxes!